How to pick groomsmen and bridesmaids?

A perfect wedding is each bride and groom’s dream. Suitable bridesmaid dresses and perfect romantic wedding dress, a good planned wedding theme, there are many things you need to do well. One of the most important thing must be the selecting of groomsmen and bridesmaids. Here we suggest you the top 5 useful tips while picking your groomsmen and bridesmaids.


1. The equal number of the best man and maid of honour.
There is no provision of selecting the best man, and the groom can choose the best man from his cousins, colleagues, old classmates. However, as usual, although the number of groomsmen is not specified, but the number of groomsmen should be consistent with bridesmaids. In general five pairs of best man and bridesmaids are appropriate if there are more than 300 people. Even there are many guests, do not exceed 5-6 pairs of best man and bridesmaids, do not let the huge siblings group robbed the limelight of the couple, if the wedding scene is too grand, you still need to ask a professional services team to organize. 2-3 pairs of best man and bridesmaids are appropriate if there are 100-300 people. These good friends can control the scene completely. 1-2 pairs of best man and bridesmaids can be fine if there are less than 100 people. Even you have many good friends, do not ask too many bridesmaids groomsmen. The aesthetics of the whole wedding decline when simple wedding caught in a huge brother and sister sibling groups.
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2. Responsible good buddy can be the groomsmen.
The bride and groom is difficult to take everything into account, the groom should have a ready to come forward to solve the problem brothers groomsmen group just like the bride has her girlfriends group. Therefore, the groomsman can’t be one who will bring trouble to the groom even he can’t help groom solve the trouble when selecting the groomsmen. If the groom insists invite one buddy who be foolish after wine dip, it can only say that the groom is asking for trouble. Of course, it’s best to choose those who are responsible and go through anything for brothers as the buddy who will not make trouble is still not good enough. If so, the groom can assure the groomsmen to deal with things if the groom is tied up once there is something sudden on the wedding day.

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3. Select the people who are organized to do the best man or bridesmaids.
There is no need that groomsmen and bridesmaid candidates are the best friend of the new couple, if the best man and bridesmaids are mainly co-workers, you can also ask the one who’s position is relatively high and the same age but not have a big gap with you, as he or she will good at this job as being a leader in real life.

4. Be active enough to be the best man and bridesmaids.
If the groom and bride have positive active molecules brothers and sisters then she or him will be the best candidate of the groomsmen and bridesmaids. The groomsman is able to get along with groom at least, and he can come forward and make the atmosphere come alive when the groom is nervous or wedding atmosphere is not enough. Thus, both inside groomsmen, responsible man, activists and some brothers who will not give you trouble, so the groom’s groomsmen have collect completed for the wedding. It’s best that the bridesmaids have a common understanding with acquaintances of the new couple and can understand the social circle of the new couple, so that she can do well with drawing up the guest list, maintain public order and deal with a lot of liaison work.
5. How to reject candidates who are not suitable.
If someone wants to do your groomsman or maid of honor very much, but you must reject due to the limited of number or this person is really not suitable the position, so how to reject him? The reason a person is not suitable for bridesmaids or groomsmen due to two factors, one is that this man and you are not good enough, you have many better options. In this case, you can refuse the person using the reason that the wedding is small and the people is limited or you can say this as a reason “Would like to invite you, but I have promised someone a long time ago” and expressed sincere apologies, this refusal is easily accepted for most people. Another factor is that this person is in a good relationship with you, but he really does not have a best man or bridesmaid quality. Encounter such a person, you can explain to him in detail about the time, responsibility, effort groomsmen and bridesmaids take, if your friend is very careless, then he will quit once hear these. These are introduction of selection of bridesmaids and groomsmen among the wedding preparations. Relax your heart and collect a group of these people for your bridesmaid and groomsmen for your wedding, they are the most active people who can active the atmosphere on your wedding!


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